Is there a way to speed up menopause?

Girl, calm down and relax. Menopause is a natural process, just like getting your period is. Your body will go through menopause when it's good and ready. You need to get over this fear of periods, it's a natural event in a women's life. I think you are a bit scared and nervous of periods. You need to sit down with your mum and discuss your fears, your mum will make you feel much better ;)